Divorce
Your First Holidays After Divorce: How to Take Care of Yourself
Your First Holidays After Divorce: How to Take Care of Yourself The holidays are supposed to be about making memories and sharing traditions. But when you’re divorced or separated, they can feel completely overwhelming. Everywhere you look there are happy families and perfect pictures. And maybe this is the first year you’ll wake up on…
Read MoreWhy Your Divorce Lawyer Shouldn’t Be the Only Expert on Your Team
Why Your Divorce Lawyer Shouldn’t Be the Only Expert on Your Team I’m going to start with something most divorce lawyers would never say out loud. I am not the expert on every single area of your case. You come to a lawyer scared and overwhelmed, wanting someone to say they have it all handled.…
Read MoreHow to Choose an Attorney Who Will Not Make Your Divorce Worse
The Advice Everyone Gives You Is Wrong The moment people find out you are getting divorced, the advice starts. And it is almost always some version of the same sentence. Get the meanest lawyer in town. Your brother in law says it. A coworker says it. Someone in a Facebook group says it with great…
Read MoreAmicable Divorce in Florida: What It Actually Means and Who It Is For
The Word That Makes People Hang Up When I use the word “amicable” on a consultation call, I can usually hear the change in someone’s breathing. It is the sound of a person deciding I do not understand their situation. Because “amicable” sounds like a requirement. It sounds like I am telling you that in…
Read MoreDoes Your Parenting Plan Cover These? Here’s What Most Plans Miss
There is a question I ask almost every client who comes to me with a parenting plan that someone else wrote, or one they wrote themselves years ago. When does spring break actually start? It sounds like a small thing. It is not. Does it start at school release on the Friday before spring break,…
Read MoreWhy Gray Divorce Requires a Different Approach
Why Gray Divorce Requires a Different Approach If you’re considering divorce later in life, you’ve probably realized that your priorities are different than they would have been 20 or 30 years ago. Gray divorce isn’t simply divorce at an older age. It’s an entirely different stage of life with different concerns, different goals, and different…
Read MoreWhy More Women Are Choosing Divorce Later in Life
Why More Women Are Choosing Divorce Later in Life For many women, the decision to divorce doesn’t happen overnight. It’s often the result of years of reflection, growth, and asking difficult questions about what they want the next chapter of their lives to look like. If you’re considering divorce in midlife, you’re not alone. In…
Read MoreWhy Divorce Court Doesn’t Create “Custom” Outcomes for Families
The Role of the Court in Divorce When people first think about divorce, many imagine that a judge will carefully review their situation and craft a solution that fits their family’s unique needs. The reality is quite different. A judge is not there to design a customized outcome for your family. Instead, the court’s role…
Read MoreSummer Self-Care Tips for Divorced Parents
Creating a Summer of Healing After Divorce For divorced parents, summer often brings a different routine than the rest of the year. Between vacation schedules, modified timesharing arrangements, and extended visits with the other parent, many moms and dads find themselves spending significantly more time away from their children. If your divorce is still fresh,…
Read MoreGray Divorce: Why More People Are Starting Over After 50
It Is Not as Uncommon as It Used to Be There is a term you may be hearing more often lately: gray divorce. It refers to couples who are divorcing at age 50 or older, or after 20 or more years of marriage. What used to be relatively rare is now becoming a significant shift…
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